It was Saturday afternoon when my kids and husband were taking afternoon nap and I was sipping a cup of hot coffee at the window glancing at the snowflakes outside. Such moments are rare when I get time for myself as generally during these hours I cook dinner or finish my office pile ups. Luckily, we had dinner planned at friends place so it was a no cooking day for me and I was at leisure.
It was not the usual day for me, I was quite depressed since morning as I got angry on the tiny human beings whom I made. I tried to be patient but somehow nothing worked and I lost it totally. Honestly, I was agitated with another reason that was pinching me inside and I exploded my anger on the mini me’s. Unfair, I know! But whatever happened could not be undone but that made me ponder upon the priorities in my life.
I was expecting a deal in office for which I had worked really hard for months but that didn’t get materialized and left me distressed. Moreover, I was unable to focus on blogging and had a writer’s block. I missed a few collaborations and paid opportunities too because of the other commitments at workplace. So, it was all chaos around and my expectations were causing anxiety. Flooded with such thoughts, restlessly, I turned towards the wall and looked at the picture of my kids and instantly, a tear rolled down my cheeks kissing my smiling lips.
Was the deal more important than the kids? Or that writing contest or those collabs? Kids are never going to remember how many deals I had cracked at my work but will always cherish the moments of joy spent together playing and cuddling with me. They will not remember whether I won or lost any contests but will definitely treasure the family outings. How many brands I had endorsed will never give them happiness but dancing and reading with them together, will. I questioned myself, “Did I start writing for winning or proving myself to anyone or competing with others?” And the answer was a clear and big NO!!! It was just for my peace and solace. Then how and why it affected me to such extent that I chose it over my honey bees.
This incident again reminded me of the fact that no job, no contest, no laurel, no collab is going to hearten me or uplift my mood but my family, my kids, my husband will always be there. All matters in the end is how happy and contented I am and what makes me elated is the giggles of my kids, their random hugs and morning snuggles whereas many couples long to have their babies. A doting and loving husband who stands like a rock all the time whereas many struggle to come out of their dying relationship. My family back home who loves me unconditionally, few wonderful friends who always have an ear to my problems, a cozy shelter over my head which is a luxury for many who spend their nights on the bench in the park or footpath, ability to feed my family which is a dream for many helpless people who feed water to their hungry kids to make them sleep. All these things are a blessing which we don’t realise and value.
We often tend to forget the little joys around us, the moments of bliss. Instead of counting our blessings, valuing them and thanking Almighty for all the good things in life, we focus more on cribbing about what is lacking. A slight change in our attitude and embracing the life as it is, will surely make the world a better place to live in. I am definitely going to work on it, are you?
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We often tend to forget the little joys around us, the moments of bliss.
Beautifully Said!
I guess all mothers can relate to your thoughts 🙂
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This is such an inspiring post! 🙂
Keep writing and keep inspiring! 🙂
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Nicely brought up post, loved the way you confessed things and corrected yourself to self.
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Wonderful heartfelt post Vartika. So true indeed.
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Thanks dear
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Beautiful 🙂 Hope you sail through it!
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Wonderful write up. I can really connect with it. Many time it happens the same with me. Its always better to live the moments, good or bad, that moment only. Life itself is a blessing. We can feel it only when we are free of unneccessary clutters
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Sometimes we ignore small things while running behind the big one, you have very nicely put up the point.
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Interesting read. Nice way to bring out emotions and let the world know what’s truly important and what to prioritize.
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True! Be grateful for what we have is really important. That will help in staying happy
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Some stories mark it point but this one is really inspiring and beautifully written
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Exactly. You said it!. We must count our Blessings , cause if we ignore them , they will be lost forever. Instead of crying over what’s lost , we should enjoy our gains , cherish our family time .
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Thats so true
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Thanks a lot Shipra.
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Whoa! I actually felt like I was reading about the story of my life…very well put…thank you for bringing this post to us. Keep writing. Looking forward to reading more posts from you. #MyFriendAlexa #MayuraReads
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Aww that was so emotional and so relatable. But an important lesson learnt is the best. #MyFriendAlexa #momlearningwithbaby
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Each word of this post resonated with me!! It was as if I was seeing a mirror. It all becomes so overwhelming at times but the real reward is our children. Lovely post-Vartika.
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Thanks Neha😊
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Such a heartfelt post! Wonderful!
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That’s an awesome post indeed. Truly inspirational.
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I would say, self realisation is the only key to happiness, and you have unlocked it.
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Very true 😊
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I always count my blessings. This is one of the lines which I will always let the almighty know. I don’t feel I deserve all of what I’ve received in my life until now.
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Happy to know you acknowledge and value your blessings but at the same time, you should not feel you don’t deserve all that you have. Good Things come to the deserving ppl one or the other day. Hope you don’t mind 😊
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I can’t agree more to it Vartika. I can relate to what you have written because there have been same situations where I also had been too. Though I don’t have kids yet I thought of my loved ones and my family… Good post. Keep it up and stay positive. All the best.
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After all family matters
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No worries 😊
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Thanks a ton
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How true! We often dream of what we don’t have and forget the gold mine around us. Great Post!
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Done! 🙂
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Thanks a ton🙏😊
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I’ve been very lax of late when it comes to counting my blessings. I need to get out of the funk I’ve dug myself into, I guess. This post was kind of a reminder to do that. Thank you.
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I am going through the same phase. Some days I just want to give up and that’s it! Blogging is like being alone on a planet. You are basically on your own. It’s better to stay in the bubble instead of looking around. There is so much chaos. #surreads #myfriendalexa #blogchatter
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absolutely agree! Our lives are made of the people in our lives and not the tasks and things… what a lovely reminder!
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A beautiful post from a positive mind
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this is a really nice post, really we should count our blessings 🙂
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This is really a inspiring post . Keep writing dear
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You almost spoke my heart out buddy. I have started living for the small joys of our lives.
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I am glad I read this post. We rarely count our blessings. I can only suggest… the “me” time has to include a gratitude prayer for all that we treasure.
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Amazing and inspiring post. Beautifully penned thoughts.
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Yes.. I feel Blessed to have a caring husband and loving daughter. And I surely give them upper hand than my work. Hope not to see such days ever in my life, and my family should always be my priority.
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Yes.. I feel Blessed to have a caring husband and loving daughter. And I surely give them upper hand than my work. Hope not to see such days ever in my life, and my family should always be my priority.
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I love the positive vibes of your blog.
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Sure. Would do so too!
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Thanks dear
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Amazingg post!! loved it #Viddhreads #Myfriendalexa
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In this age of virtual living, FOMO is something that makes us all grievous. We tend focus too much on what we don’t have. It’s important to remind oneself about the small blessings in our life.
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True that
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